following in the footsteps of the great scholar neobud.
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neobud
There is no amount of tutoring teaching or guidance that will help a troubled man such as yourself. You are the typical bitter IT guy that has a miserable existance with no social life or skills. I have met MANY MANY guys like you in my field. It is a shame really.
Try attending a finishing school that could help your manners, lack of tact and aplomb.