That's an answer. I guess it is up to you. If it were my child, i'd teach them how to grow in general and not focus on something that could land them in prison.
Main thing about young ones is the desire to be cool and show off. Apparently 22 and was my son's magical age before he stopped running his mouth to everybody about where it comes from. He's 25 now and he's talking about wanting to try his hand at it. I think he's ready
Unless it was a legal environment, never. If they came to me as adults and asked for my knowledge I'd freely give it. imho, children, and young adults, have only the sense of what is safe and realistic that we instill in them. As a father, why have my child put her safety in danger simply because it's "what she's used too"? My kids have known what I do well before their adulthood. They don't need to be a part of it tho. If the time comes that as an aware adult one of them seeks to learn what it is I do and comes to the decision by their own volition? I'll gladly be a supportive parent.
adult Its a big deal. under federal law no state is legal. Uncle Sam says you go to jail and then some. Until that changes I will steer my brood elsewhere. And then some.
Res put it well. I never hid what I did from from my son but instructed him of what was expected of him and what ever choices he made when he was an adult was different than the choices he could make for himself as a kid were. I would add that I would show them how to garden in general. Do some perrenials and veggies in 2 seperate areas and teach them how to grow that way. Then when they become adults and ask how to add to their repertoire it will be an easy switch.
they are over 18...but so young to me. They've known for years, kept telling him when you're an adult (it's family) but I just don't want him paying for it dealing with shitty people, but what's bigger in mind is being responsible if something goes wrong.
Have to agree with this one. Kids can't stand knowing something or having something and not showing off or yacking to their friends. Then their friends do the same to their friends until the wrong people find out. I think it depends on the reasons. Is it for personal stash, to make some extra money, or serious interest for a future when it's legal. But, how many kids can have something the others don't and not be likely to show it off. They are way too social and don't understand the virtues of privacy. Unless they can comprehend the ramifications and resist involving their friends, I'd say no. Be Cool, CG
Very astute thought that more than one poster has shared. Immaturity is a risk in any situation, much less an illegal one. Being the hippy dad/uncle who gets hit up for free top shelf weed has it's own risks. Kids, and immature adults, are simply too free with information and the need to be noticed. Imagine the temptation if that top shelf came from their own hand? How hard is it for even older growers to keep our mouths shut sometimes?
Like you say the immature adults can be as bad. I have a couple friends that still have a habit of bringing up old times and stories in groups of people to 're-affirm' their coolness. Every hot new bartender at the country club had to hear about the wicked shit we used to get from so and so and got soooo fucked up. My response is always 'thank God I've outgrown that, man the stupid shit we did as kids' then change the topic or just leave. Even when those people bring up the subject in private I tell them I quit years ago with no regrets. Be Cool, CG
your insane if you teach someone that young this shit Nip...in sooo many ways Lead him to a few websites and let him learn on his own, if he wants tips, then maybe drop some knowledge but do not get involved in any way at all...don't put your fam at risk in any way ever!
I would say wait till it goes legal or if they got their own place and are doing it, help them out. But you got to teach them rule number 1 first. That's the most important rule in the game. Don't let them make mistakes that can get them in trouble or worse.
no brains Generally speaking kids that age have a lack of experience. therefore they get themselves into situations that otherwise wouldn't happen with normal adults good example that trust too many of their friends that would f*** them. My 22 year old decided to show all his friends what I do for a living. Luckily I was smart enough to put some plants outside and keep them away from the building. Follow the trail of leaves off my plants to the kids front door
I'm going to tell my kids I went to church every sunday and got nothing but As. If I, my brother, or my father are any indication, whatever comes from my loins is going to be a little sociopathic drug addict as it is. Doubt he or she will need any help from me as far as that's concerned. That being said, gardening is a great hobby. I started weeding my parents garden when I was 5 or 6. Respect for nature, labor, and good food are lessons that should be taught as young as possible IMO.
Sirstynk totally agree. I think I'm going to hold off and send them some sites to look at first, once they are doing things on their own maybe I'm chime in to help. I just don't want to be responsible, but at the same time I want to help...damn double edged sword you know
Just like i'll never encourage my kid to smoke weed,id never encourage him to grow it either. If he finds his way into that scene then i'll accept it. Its like Religion id never encourage my kid to believe in God but if he finds his way there then fair enough. My parenting style is more in tuned with praying to fuck he dont know too much too soon like i did and the pitfalls that entails. Im sure you'll do it in a way that works for your kids if it was you though. Its like football,im love football but callum wants to do boxing and running or even cycling. I'll let him gravitate to whatever he feels comfortable with. Its an each to their own parenting question really. Looking for a padawan apprentice nip?:jj:
Not looking for an apprentice, I prefer my garden gnomes to be in short skirts I've been asked for the last several years, I keep putting them off. More because of a maturity level I think. They are mature for their age, but I just can't get past how unstable I was at the same age. My circle now is full on trust, no worries at all. I just don't know if I would feel the same if that makes sense....but in the same breath I feel compelled to help in some way