What do you guys look for in a blowjob?

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  1. Mermaid

    Mermaid ~Sea Of Green~

    Lukesmommy....girl you were right about us being alike! Maybe your my long lost sister chick!:thumbsup:


    Herb, candles are OK only if it is bright enough to see his face as like Lukesmommy stated, we WANT to see his face while we go down. Lights do not bother me for one can't turn the sun off if you chose to do it outdoors where it is secluded? Nothing like the beach or out in a meadow on a blanket.


    Geo, never tried the hot tea but have made a note to self to try one day if Mister Right comes into my life. :) Already did the altoid mints before with my ex and he said it was OK but he was more into ala natural meaning not into props. To each their own....I hear men like it so maybe it was just his quirk. He also did not like sexy ilngerie or any props at all. LOL he liked buck naked and also loved if I had one of his button down shirts or tees on.


    Everyone is different IMO. One g/frd always tells me her man wants her to put on tons of makeup, wear the hooker get up and said he requires it. Sounds to me like he has watched too much porn...hahha:rofl: I understand if he likes it but hell if his woman is standing in front of him with NO clothes on and ready to jump his bones?? What man would say "stop" and tell them to go put on all that stuff on when first it takes time and I would think it would spoil the mood. Just too rehearsed if you ask me ;)


    And not into makeup....ewwwwww! Maybe thigh high boots or were already dressed up from attending a function or after you get home from work, yah I can see him liking his girl all pretty in heels.


    Being spontaneous is the only way to be! Ohhh and also wanted to mention there is NOTHING like food play!! Whip creme and yummy things... ;)
     
  2. the_red_bull

    the_red_bull Guest

    I've never thought about it before but


    no teeth, that is so important, I would let a girl suck me off if she had no teeth just because I am so tired of the novice thinking she's doing right by scraping me up.


    go all the way down. I hate to say it but I like to feel like I'm using your face hole as a pussy.


    I want to be able to cum in your mouth, basically...you're a receptacle. Be the receptacle


    Don't be afraid to drool, I like when it's sloppy and wet.
     
  3. ResinRubber

    ResinRubber Civilly disobedient/Mod

    I agree, there is nothing like watching my parner orgasm. Especially when it's just been fingers or toys and my tongue. Real turn-on and a mighty powerful, confidence inducing feeling cause I know my turn is coming up....and if you thought THAT was good....you ain't seen nuthin yet!


    This is getting fun. So ladies, do you like it when you partner alternates between oral and fucking, or does it throw off the rythm?


    cheers,
     
  4. lukesmommy

    lukesmommy "lil doobie"

    RR, it depends... if I have already climaxed once or multiple, then the alternation can be awesomely enjoyable. But if I haven't came yet, then I would want him to finish "eating" first...lol
     
  5. skunky

    skunky labor smoke'n lumberjack

    :iamwithstupid:


    And girls c'mon :FAQ: LOL


    And just got to say(again)


    :nopics:
     
  6. teamster6

    teamster6 Guest

    girls

    Now this is getting interesting.
    teamster6
     
  7. Mermaid

    Mermaid ~Sea Of Green~

    Personally I love to change it up, take turns with foreplay or even oral at the same time which is fun too. For me there comes a point where I just am all crazy or too excited and yah want him inside ;) Guess it depends on how worked up he gets me but sometimes it is fun to keep taking one another to the edge if you catch my drift.


    I like creativity plus the anything goes in the bedroom as if it is the same each time, well I feel like it is watching the same flick over and over....:icon_confused: Then again if she has your head between her legs in a head lock, ummm that is a sure sign she is not ready for intercourse. I am vocal and not sure how the other ladies let their partner know but both my ex's knew what I wanted at all times and vice versa.


    If I want to fuck, then he will know for LOL I will be pulling at him to get on top or lol I will release his head and flip him over to get on top depending on the moment. I do know one thing, I hate staying in the same position all the time and will change that up too unless ummm well I am in the zone, then there is NO way he is moving until I have the orgasm. After that, he can pick the next position...lol


    I am sure all the ladies will agree on one thing, if your hitting her happy place whether it is orally or through intercourse, you stand NO chance of moving or changing positions for then you will get clawed or hurt...haha


    Same with a man, I would never stop until he has his because there is nothing worse then almost having it and our partner either quitting to rest OR changing it up before you had it. Grrrrrrrr don't you hate that??


    Resin I do agree there is nothing more exciting then being in charge of making your partner have a orgasm.....almost like a rush to see their face and yep you feel like your GOD....:rofl:


    RedBull...ummm I am not sure what chicks you have been with or are you just skeered of teeth?? I mean women know how to give head and make sure their teeth never scrape their man.


    Also keep in mind not all chicks are into the deep throat due to "gag reflux" or some just refuse too. Then again there are men who do not like to give oral on a chick either.


    As far as the comment "I hate to say it but I like to feel like I'm using your face hole as a pussy. I want to be able to cum in your mouth, basically...you're a receptacle. Be the receptacle" Ummm well not all chicks would be offended by this but lol I would not say it to just any girl or you will prolly get slapped. It could come off as degrading so best watch using that line with just any girl. I see not problem with talking dirty if it was with my loved one, but my question to you is are you one sided or do you give back to your woman?? Do you please her as much as she does for you?? Dunno why but I picked up on some "all about me" in your post and sorry if I read you wrong. Hope not... ;)


    No it does not throw off the rhythm IMO.
     
  8. lukesmommy

    lukesmommy "lil doobie"

    "I hate to say it but I like to feel like I'm using your face hole as a pussy. I want to be able to cum in your mouth, basically...you're a receptacle. Be the receptacle" - red bull


    If you said that to me, I would tell you to go f*** yourself. Women are not "recepticals" and there is nothing wrong with f'ing a woman's face when they're blowing you- some find it as a turn on for you to take control like that. But, criminy, a receptical??? C'mon, there is way more to sex then just gettin your nut off! Do you reciprocate, like mermaid asked, cause when put that way, it sounds like you aren't too concerned if she gets her rocks off.


    With every partner I've EVER had, he wanted to know I was gettin some kinda satisfaction, whether orally or vaginally, before he blew his load. you sound like its the old Baseball bat in the garbage can theory. I would think through what you're saying before you post it... I'm sure there are other women on here that would take great offense to being thought of as a f*** recepticle... not a good way to get a hot chick- or to keep one...
     
  9. Administrator

    Administrator Administrator

    Of course there's enough light to see by silly. I like to look into the eyes too...you know that. :tongue:


    As for outdoor sex and the Sun. I'm a 'Ganja God'.....I just make the moon move in front of the Sun and turn down the lights. :thumbsup:
     
  10. Mermaid

    Mermaid ~Sea Of Green~

    LOL @ the moon move!!! And a good idea at that!:thumbsup:


    LukesMommy.....whewww glad you also read that the way I did chick! Sure would not want to be his date if that is his opinion of women. ;) See I am pretty good at reading between the lines so not much gets past me but was giving him the benefit of the doubt but you even felt the same as I did as you read it so if it walks & talks like a duck....ummm usually it is a duck. ;)


    Hope I am wrong for that is just wow too hard for me to comprehend that he would think of his girl as a receptacle or worse for her to let him treat her that way. I am with you....he would not only be told to go f* off but prolly get slapped. ;) No excuse for degrading anyone whether male or female. Talk dirty and that is all good IMO but shit he takes that to a whole other plane. :siskel:


    Both people should be getting their rocks off...not just one. Why not pay for a whore then if that is how you roll. ;)
     
  11. EvilSkuzzi

    EvilSkuzzi Sweet Guy

    There was a women in my old local that would suck you off for £5 without her teeth in lol. She wasnt a day over 70 either lol :puke:
     
  12. talltrees

    talltrees A Fat Sticky Bud

    3952 Yarborough Dr


    Jacksonville, FL 32277


    ANYTIME you feel like blowin cock and are in the area hit me up I got 8 inches you can suck all night long
     
  13. lukesmommy

    lukesmommy "lil doobie"

    Nice TT... :rofl: Good luck with that!!!
     
  14. bLITzkRIEg420

    bLITzkRIEg420 sHAPesHIFTinG rEPTiLiAN

    Bj's do nothing for me and never have... I don't know why but when it comes to oral I would rather give than recieve.
     
  15. ResinRubber

    ResinRubber Civilly disobedient/Mod

    Knock knock.....we have a warrant.......
     
  16. Guerilla Family

    Guerilla Family Serious Guerilla Farmer

    I really hope you are kidding.
     
  17. Guerilla Family

    Guerilla Family Serious Guerilla Farmer

    You kinky ass Injun! :rofl: Aint it a bitch pick the dried wax outta the Fur?
     
  18. WiZaRD

    WiZaRD Harvested Fat Sticky Bud

    I like a blow J. Ya need to moan. Act as if you've been waiting to give that blow J for a week. Kinda like when you crave kind bud, after not having ANY for a week. Love the cock. I know that sounds funny; but, really - Love the cock. Oh yeah, and staying fully on the cock[swallowing, or spitting just stay on] when he nuts will definately score you points most women never get.
     
  19. bLITzkRIEg420

    bLITzkRIEg420 sHAPesHIFTinG rEPTiLiAN

    I do like when my girl licks my balls... Throw that in and any Bj becomes a great Bj! :thumbsup:
     
  20. DaBurner420

    DaBurner420 This Line For Rent.

    Damn I be missing some interesting threads. Haven't had the patience to read past the first couple pages but i'm sure this has been said multiple times:


    for me, SPEED should not be too fast, i get the biggest explosions when it is controlled with variations, i think too much speed overstimulates to the point that it numbs the dick in a sense.


    ENTHUSIASM- glorify the dick, show lust for it throughout the job, like it is the only best dick you could possibly want in the world, with ease.


    MOISTURE- juice it up and keep it that way, even the balls too if you want but be very very delicate with them.


    NO TEETH!


    Keep the MOTION going but with creativity, change your stroking methods with your mouth, but keep it stroking, maybe change positions of how it enters your mouth occasionally. Use your lips and tongue only with out it in your mouth occasionally.


    SUCTION- like speed, to me too much just numbs it somewhat. Don't constantly suck. Switch between no sucking, light sucking, and light-moderate sucking.


    Don't let it get cold, or catch a draft.


    Don't show frustration or impatience while doing it, it's a turn off.


    Don't neglect the rest of the shaft (usually the near the base is neglected), I sometimes can't cum unless the whole shaft gets some: can variate stimulation to the rest of the neglected shaft from on/off, more on better.


    I don't like hand jobs at all.


    This is all what I like, other guys may think different. Whenever you feel like practicing, i am available..
     

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