Ladies of GK, help!

Ha, Ha, Ha- We got a fuckin' comedian over here!!!

 

Love is a mutherfucker!

Yeah, that's the thing! I'm totally ready to make the change but I don't want to resent her for it!


You mean I've got to go back to shitty ass, seeded out, non-flushed, flash-dried, rag weed or fucking $25 a gram for some weed worthy of Christian lungs for love? What a fucking jyp man!!!

 

Hell no it's not a deal breaker!!!

Yeah, I wish I could un-love her but that's complicated. She's got 44 double D's man! FUUUUUCK!!! WoooHoooo!!!:icon_cheers: :eusa_clap: :woohoo: :sex:


I can't just toss that out man! I just think better and clearer after she's just REALLY worked my meat! It's become a necessity in life! Hell no it's not a deal breaker!!!

 

But seriously I do love the woman and not just for the obvious reasons. I've had enough sex for a couple of lifetimes so that's only part of the reason that I'm not just like "Fuck her!" ya' know?

 

Relationships are full of compromises from both partys talk to her work something out that both of you will be happy. Main thing is don't lie to her & don't lie to yourself.-Bud

 

Oh, dear. You are in a pickle. Frankly, Im more concerned about her being a gung-ho Christer than about her pot growing stand. I mean...she will insist on your kid plus any kids you have to be gung-ho, too. You will have to listen to that Jesus shit day in, day out, forever. Man...I couldnt hack that, personally. Nor could I bear to see a kid brain-washed into it from an early age---the younger they are indoctrinated, the harder to kick it.


I dunno....Love is great and all, but we all know that a year or two after the wedding vows, most of the I Love You So much I could Shit stuff is over. The romance goes and you're left with a Jesus freak who wont let you grow your weed in peace.


My advice would be maybe live together for at least two years before getting married and see if it's worth it. DOnt let her get pregs.


Dixie

 

Where ther's a will there's a way!!!

We had it out yesterday, bigtime! She got mad and stormed out. She just kept saying it was against her morals and principles and whenever someone says that it's a red flag to me that they're full of shit. She knows I'm an Athiest and says that she can accept THAT but not growing weed INSIDE of the home or on the property.


I drove the point home that if we're in a relationship what I think matters just as much as she thinks matters so this "my morals are the right ones so that's the premise I'm starting with in my mind and your morals don't matter because they're not what I was taught growing up" mentallity isn't healthy for a relationship nomatter if I was growing weed or somthing else. I told her if she really was going to be reasonable that she could take down the fortification she's built around the subject and think about somthing other than just herself! I could tell she had never heard a guy tell HER that before! She's usually on the giving end of that statement and this time she wasn't so that kind of threw her! She made a cute little sad-face like she was gonna cry and she got her purse and left.


I wanted to laugh SOOOOOO bad! After she left I rolled on the floor laughing, then the feeling turned to dread that I had lost my girl. I didn't mean to hurt her feelings but I wasn't giving in either. She called later and apoligized for walking out and told me that she loved me. I told her we just would'nt move in together untill I had a job good enough to pay $25 a gram for decent cheeba. I'm figuring I could afford that on about $50,000 a year. The writing's on the wall; college here I come! I could get a B.S. in Psychology in 4 years. I was thinking about getting in school anyway. This is just another reason to get the ball rolling. And when I start making the money I want to make I can build my grow setup in a storage facility space or rent a Pod or somthing. Where there's a will there's a way!


God I love banging her!!!

 

LOL! "natural position of authority"???


Let me guess...you're wife left ya, right? My friend...sigh...come on in to the 21 century.


IF there IS such a thing as "natural authority"...I suggest the person who bears the children who form the Human Race IS that "natural authority". After all, there are a shitload more women raising kids alone than there are men raising kids alone. Hence, it is MOTHERS, not fathers, who essentially produce the next generation.


Sure, sure, men are bigger and physically stronger, LOL. But like I said to my first hubby who hit me (once)..."Ya gotta sleep sometimes, pal." Funny how, once ya sew a drunk sleeping guy into his bedclothes, then whoop the crap outa him with a broomstick....he kinda loses that "I am BOSS!" attitude. Why? BECAUSE HE'S GOTTA SLEEP SOMETIMES.


"natural authority", LOL. Give it a rest. If you aint got a weoman (and I doubt you do), you're living in a filthy dump smelling your own dirty socks and eating delivery pizza. What a life. Having a woman is a transformational event for a man--she brings him IN to the Light.


Be honest, now. A couple who raises their kids from a perspective of equal partership produces sane, mature, happy folks. Kids raised in a "dad is boss" family spend years on a shrink's couch, have multiple divorces and neurotic kids.


"matural aithority"!. Good one!


sheesh.


Dixie


pffft.


Dixie


The real deal is...without women, men would still be sleeping in caves, dude.

 

No, honey. You cant pretend to not be growing. Ya gotta either agree you CAN grow, or agree you will NOT grow, or you're perpretataing a lie that will break you up, sooner or later, no question. This isuue needs to be agreed upon BEFORE moving in together...or, you will be setting yourself up for losing her---


Now...our Caveman is right about one thing...you CAN tell her straight up you intend to grow...and let her make the decision whether to move in with that as a given...or not move in. Then, go with whatever she decides. She can move in KNOWING you will grow...or NOT move in at all. The crucial point is TRUTH from Jump Street.


Good luck, man.


Dixie

 

Pussy is powerful!!!

Dude, she's kind of right. As men we'd fuck a woman in a cardboard box if they'd let us. Women are the reason houses were built. Most men don't like nice cars because they REALLY like nice cars, they like nice cars because WOMEN like nice cars! We'd fucking ride a horse with our women bent over our laps as we ride if they'd let us. We don't give a shit! And that's why cars were built. I'm not saying that men aren't important too, because at the end of the day you need a man to get pregnant and produce the next generation, but you've got to admit that pussy WILL make a man want a job WITH benefits. Now that's power. Hell, King Solomon had some pussy SOOOOO good back in Palistine, back in the day, that he changed religions a couple of times! Damn! Now that's some GOOD pussy! Make a man change gods and shit!

 

Yeah...but not GOOD choices. The "trusted friend" may end up taking a bust FOR you....and trust me, NOBODY loves you enough to NOT roll over if it aint even their dope. So...they will be busted and SO WILL YOU. Except now, it's a "drug conspiracy", involving MORE than just one person.


Either get her to agree or give it up.


Or, keep living separately.


Dixie

 

I get it. I live in the Baptist Capitol of the World, LOL. Im afraid to even admit I read Tarot...for fear some Christer will come burn me at the stake for Jesus. Im serious.


Im just saying...if this lady is a sho-nuff Born Agin JC freak, then YOU are a hopeless Sinner who WILL go to Hell and it's her JOB to convert you. By being a Christian, she can NOT morally allow you to "sin" in "her" home...nor can she NOT attempt to "save" you...for your own good, of course.l


Does she smoke dope? I bet not....sigh.


Pal..this is a REAL problem, I fear. You will not change her mind about weed any more than you will change her mind about Jeeeziz. You may need to either go get baptized AND give up weed...or give her up.


Im soorry, bro...but this aint no small shit, like "I like football but she HATES it."


Diixie.

 

The Pursuit of Happiness!!!

I was gonna go to school anyway so she's just another reason not the only one. I was kind of rethinking it (going to school) because of an out of town job opportunity but my mind wasn't made up untill the other day. Hello....I'm a Libra! We tend to overthink before making our really good and profitable decisions, so I just got to be me.


This is my version of the American Dream:


I get enough property with airable farming land to grow appx. an acre of pot and 10 acres of crops to feed my horses and cattle and through doing that I have will have taken care of the most expensive and potentially unhealthy item on our dinner plates; the meat. The sale of the horses will net a great profit along with the weed harvest. I gets my sons and my guns and we defend our property line and our money with our lives, and that's where having a beautiful, big brested, fertile, goddess comes into play. Being in love with each other is a bonus. That just makes it sweeter, dude! When our sons and daughters grow up they can leave if they want or they can stay and keep'er going! Me and their mom will have amassed enough money to spend the rest of our days in Vegas or Ampsterdam or on a Yaht sailing between Nantuckett Bay and Puget Sound. That's MY pursuit of happiness and it's all falling into place! [As Mr. Burns from the Simpsons] Yessss, eeeexcellent!

 

face it man...


you are gonna have to choose. sooner or later the kids will grow up and become aware, and then they will tell their little friends. loose lips will get you busted! from my pov, 1) dont live together, sounds like you both have issues to work out or 2) quit growing and concentrate on the relationship. go to church with her, and grow the relationship instead. sounds like she is wanting to avoid all the "red flags" that lead to the end of her R with the fucked up guy. i vote for dont live together. and my opinion is also that you could show her more respect by not talking about sex with her. good luck!

 

Very good advice here Res...


Listen to the man BP, he would know.


Good Luck!


-LM

 

No disrespect here, man.

No disrespect here! She talks about how good I bang her to her friends ALL THE TIME! We're just freaky and open like that! We have good sex together and we're proud of it! I'm also trying to talk her into getting a domain name and doing a live webcam of our escapades once a week for some bucks!